Hello 2014! Back to work and the day to day grind. I hate that my first post for the year is a downer, but this is my space to write about the good days...and the bad. That's how life is. I guess I should start back to a several months ago. Easton didn't seem to be saying as many words as other kids his age at that point. We thought maybe he is just a "late talker" 1. Overall boys tend to start talking later than girls. 2. He is not in daycare and 3. He doesn't have older siblings. A little more time went by and we were concerned. I went ahead and starting the process to get him into speech therapy. I would rather be wrong and not need it rather than continue to wait and him get behind.
Well, the process to get going took a couple months and we finally started his sessions in December after going through other testing he had to do. Those tests showed that he was above average in every area (motor skills, problem solving, etc. but was obviously low in the communication score) At this point he only has 3 words (mama, dada and bye bye) He attempts to talk all the time and is luckily able to let us know what he is wanting or needing by his non-verbals. He will push us over to the pantry and point to a snack and sign please while saying (pa)
So...the other day at speech the therapist said that she was a little concerned by the fact that he may be showing signs of speech apraxia. This is a neurological disorder where the child understands everything you are saying, knows what they need to say back, but the signal from the brain to the mouth is not what it needs to be to allow their mouth to form the words. We pray that this is not what he has. This would mean many years of very intense speech therapy and a rough road ahead. I feel so bad for Easton when he does his speech...he tries SO hard to talk to us and his mouth and face are moving with so much focus but he can't get it out.
The couple things that had her worried were: The fact that he is so smart as far as understanding what we are saying. He has done several tests to show that he knows what you are saying, will point out all of his letters and numbers, etc. But can't give anything back. She said if he was not understanding as much as he was then maybe it was just an overall delay, but he knows so much. Also, the fact that he continues to go to "ah ba" For example, when he is babbling it is always "ah ba ah bah" Even when we tried some exercises the other night of what does a cow say and really showing him our mouths going "mmmmmoooooo" He would open his mouth really wide and "ah ba" came out.
Needless to say, the year is off to a stressful start after hearing the potential problem. We have cried a lot and have been working that much harder with Easton to have him watch our mouths make sounds, putting a mirror in front of us and moving our mouths around to try and have him imitate us. One thing that the therapist is so amazed by is the fact that he shows no frustration. She said you can tell he is walking around like, "Life is good and everybody loves me" :) He is such a sweet little boy and I will just keep praying and know that everything will be just fine.
Sorry so long, I debated writing about it all but want to write about it so that I can look back for Easton's benefit to know what he was doing when. Last night we went to Easton's pediatrician's house for dinner. We knew them long before we started using her as our doctor, and they have become friends. She made me feel so much better about everything. When we were eating dinner we were making Easton ask for his water and yesterday he added "wawa" to his vocabulary. So, after he would say "wawa" we were all excited and clapped for him. They have 3 college/high school aged kids that were eating too and Easton pointed to the one that wasn't clapping. He will call you out if you don't clap when he does something good :) It cracks us up.
Now to end on a happy note. Today was GORGEOUS. We went to the park and had a great day together as a family. ♥ Happy Saturday! xoxo